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I need to catch you up quick because the “real” journey begins tomorrow. In my introduction I explained that I have been struggling for 22 years with Fibromyalgia. My pain level most days is high and usually is not confined to the normal pressure points the “experts” define. The lack of sleep or should I say lack of quality sleep leaves me so fatigued and that is probably what I struggle with most.
My daughter and son-in-law have started a new internet business at www.healthykids.com. They have asked me to be the E-Commerce manager for the business and I am so excited. We attended the International Home Show in Chicago in early March and together selected some wonderful products to feature on their web site to help busy parents raise healthy kids.
Now in my real life I am the Human Resource Manager for a Manufacturing facility here in West Virginia. I love my job and quite frankly I think I am very good at it. Problem is that I drive 57 miles in each direction to work every day and on top of the two hour commute, I work nine to ten hours a day. My husband says I try to be “wonder woman” which explains how I have developed this position into a very high stress, demanding job.
Because of the fibro, every day is an effort. My day starts with a struggle to get up because I am so fatigued and so stiff, I get through the day often times taking several Aspirin Free Excedrin’s (which have now been taken off the market) and then go home eat and go straight to bed. I take medication to help me go to sleep at night and then I take medication in the morning to help me deal with my pain. Not sure any of the 5 prescription meds I take help but I am afraid to stop taking them just in case they are.
I don’t want to bore you with this stuff because I know it is the same thing all of us go through each day but I need to give you a little background into why I am starting this new journey. I am hardly making it through the day now and I have taken on this new exciting opportunity. Something has to change for me to successfully do both jobs.
The one constant and wonderful thing in my life aside from my family is that every weekday morning I listen to my mentor, JB Glossinger at www.morningcoach.com. He is a life coach and teaches personal development and he has completely changed my life. His positive life lessons have taught me that I can live a productive life even with this terrible diagnosis. One thing I know for sure is that no matter what hand you have been dealt in life, your cure or your improvement always begins with your mental outlook on the problem. You Can When You Believe You Can.
Tomorrow the journey begins. Please join me as I embark on the most challenging step I have taken since being diagnosed in 1990 with Fibromyalgia. Up to this point everything I have tried and every medication I have taken has been on my terms. I have always felt the pain was bad enough that I shouldn’t have to sacrifice anything else to possibly make a difference. But I think that will all change tomorrow.
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Great stuff. Fibromyalgia is a real and serious issue. As you stated, sleep an the lack of therein is one of the biggest factors. If you focus on that alone, you will improve significantly. Check out what I had to say about sleep on my blog. Let me know where you live to find a braincore biofeedback center near you. It can change your life.
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Hey Dr. Joe:
I live in Bridgeport, WV. Please let me know of a center near me and thanks for the comments. I really appreciate them.
There is no clinic in WV as of now. If one comes up, I’ll let you know. Sorry.
Biofeedback is a great way to get rid of sleep issues.
See what is available near you.
Best wishes,
Dr. Joseph Bogart
This journey is so exciting. I’ve been with you through the reike, massages, and medicine. I just know this new approach is going to work. Don’t stop now. Pain free days are just around the corner.
Hope so. I am pretty sure that Hungry Days are just around the corner.
Thanks for the share Lindy. I was diagnosed with FM back in the late 80′s I’ve learned to live with it. The lack of good quality sleep has been a constant struggle.
Thanks for the comments Mike. Follow me on the journey. Maybe something along the way will help you also.
Ok Michael, just when I think I can’t be more impressed, I am.. You climbed Mt Everest.. What an example to follow. You and Lindy have my admiration.
Thanks for the info Lindey. I had never heard of Fibromyalgia. I like the fact that you mentioned everthing begins with you mental attitude. I also believe that to be true.
Thanks for taking time to read my blog Tony. I really appreciate it.
lindy..so sorry..i didnt even realize you suffered with this..my sister in law has it..and i know there is a lot of pain associated with it..will be watching your updates..wishing you well..yes you are a very strong woman to be able to do all you are doing. yes, i know from experience as you well know that your mental outlook is very important..you can let yourself get defeated or you can go on as you say with what life has given you. you also have a lot to live for and wont let this get you down..keep your head up, stay strong, keep faith…hugs
Thanks Linda. Life is just full of journey’s for all of us. Thanks for reading about mine. I will be posting daily for at least the next couple weeks while I go through my detox.
Lindy great blog post. I’m so proud of you beginning your bloggIng journey AND your opportunity to help with the healthy e-commerce business. You are a wonder woman! Keep up the good stuff. I look forward to hearIng more about the fibro-challenge. Many hugs to you!
Jenn: Thanks for reading and posting. There is lots more to come. Love reading your post.
Lindy, You can do it!!!! Good luck and keep us updated! Carrie
I know I can Carrie but boy is it going to be hard. I would sell my soul for a drink of Sprite lol.
Lindy,
Awesome job with your post!!! You’re a true warrior, and are absolutely right when it comes to the importance of having a positive outlook in life. Can’t wait for your next post!
Luis
Thanks Luis. It took a lot longer than I had thought it would to get the word press site going. Thank goodness for Kirk. Now I hope that I can keep it going. I appreciate all your help and support more than you know. Thanks so Much!!!!!!!
Lindy you are one of the strongest and smartest ladies that I low and I know that whatever you set out to do in life you will accomplish . The faith and prayers will see us through . Love you and hugs.
Juanita
Thanks Juanita. I think of people like you and Phil everyday when I am struggling. We all have issues to deal with and there is always someone just around the corner that is dealing with way more than you are.
I am so happy you are embarking on this journey. I can not wait to see you improve each and every week. It is time you start taking care of you. Love you and wish you many many pain free days
I might be pain free because I am dead with no sprite lol. Keep reading, it will be interesting.
Lindy, great post. I know you will be successful in your new role and with any challenge you take on. You are an inspiration and i look forward to following you on your journey.
Very nice job! and yes, mental attitude has alot to be said for failure or success. 1% a day..
Lindy,
every move forward in life with a health-load on your back is something special.
No, it is never easy. But we the concerned always have a sparkling proud and sad in tears “eye” with us. And it is mainly US who moves forward because we carry something we can share with others. And once you go out and share it you feel less and lees load of what you had before when you kept it for yourself.
I wish you less and less load and automatically an improving health condition on your journey!!!
Have success with your BLOG post!
rita
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